How Deep to Hunker

"Hunker down." "Stay at home." These are the instructions we keep hearing. How deeply should we hunker?

1) Hunker deeply enough to decompress. Whether serving on the front lines, working an essential job, homeschooling, or being constantly confined, almost everyone is experiencing extra pressure.

It is important to deal appropriately with those pressures. For most people, that means a certain amount of solitude to devote to activities (or inactivity) that relieve pressure. Don't remain so constantly busy that there is no time to rest. "And He said to them, 'Come away by yourselves to a secluded place and rest a while'" (Mark 6:31).

2) Hunker deeply enough to profit with God. Challenging times are especially suited for spiritual growth. "Knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing" (James 1:3-4). God wants us to draw near to Him, to grow in Him, and to seek Him as our source of help.

These goals require time with God in prayer and in His Word. Some people have plenty of time available for this. Others, who have limited time, still need it and must find times alone with God. It would be a tragedy if Christians went through this time of trial without learning and growing. "O God, You are my God; I shall seek You earnestly; my soul thirsts for You" (Psalm 63:1).

3) Hunker deeply enough to profit with family. Time with children is limited and quickly fleeting. There is so much to teach them and so many ways to influence them. Soon they will be going out on their own. They will need a firm foundation of love and of Biblical training.

For many families, these days provide a priceless gift of unexpected time together. Because of their difficulty, they are especially suited for teaching important life lessons. "You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up" (Deuteronomy 6:7). Don't let this God-given opportunity pass without profit for your family.

In hunkering down for personal well-being, spiritual pursuits, and family enrichment, it is possible to hunker too deeply. It is possible to forget those outside your small circle. These days cannot be total isolation from anyone outside the walls of your home.

4) Don't hunker so deeply that you neglect fellow church members. Even though you are temporarily apart, you still need each other. God gave the church as a place where all believers can be part of a family. The New Testament is packed with "one another" instructions, and those instructions are still important. "Therefore encourage one another and build up one another, just as you also are doing" (I Thessalonians 5:11).

A few churches have unusual accommodations for services that allow members to see each other distantly, and some make it possible digitally, but many churches have no visual contact. There must then be contact through other ways - Facebook, emails, phone calls, texts, video calls, regular mail, and meeting physical needs where necessary. Those who are most alone especially need support. Those who are elderly, perhaps technologically challenged and with fewer contacts, need the support of their church. For some people, church is their most important social interaction, and they have already gone weeks without it.

5) Don't hunker so deeply that you forget your pastor. Pastors are faithfully supporting and encouraging their people. They are continuing to bring the Word in very appropriate sermons. They are probably making more phone calls than just about anyone else in the church, trying to check on people. They are working to meet needs of which they are aware. They are praying for their congregations.

Pastors are doing all of this without the benefit of interaction or communication. Many are preaching via video to an empty room. (Some, whose churches lack technology, are not even able to do that.) Pastors are not seeing facial responses, they aren't hearing "amens," they aren't getting feedback as people leave, they aren't hearing people share their needs or tell how a sermon impacted them. The pastor has a solemn duty to meet spiritual needs. "Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they keep watch over your souls as those who will give an account" (Hebrews 13:17). God can direct pastors even when feedback is limited, but interactions with their congregations provide helpful insights. Help your pastor do his job effectively by letting him know how things are going and what needs and burdens you have. Show him proper esteem by finding ways to let him know of his effective ministry to you.

6) Don't hunker so deeply that you forget the needy. People around the world are hurting, scared, confused, and have many other issues. These are great days for the gospel. The means of interacting with people are severely curtailed, but there are some opportunities, and those will increase as restrictions gradually lift.

Pray for missionaries (and reach out to them). They have unprecedented opportunities in many places around the world. Instead of being part of the chaos that confronts your co-workers, neighbors, families, and friends, be a source of peace. Show Christian love by meeting practical needs where possible. More importantly, display a testimony that shows you have something different in your life - something real - that can help in difficulty. "Always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you" (I Peter 3:15).

In some aspects, the hunkering down is a blessing, as it provides opportunities for rest, communion with God, and increased interaction with family. Enjoy the blessings, but don't forget about those outside your circle. Interact and be a blessing for the good of the church and the gospel. Hunker, but don't disappear.